Spill it
Post about a date: his first name, his age, the area, at least one photo of him, and what happened. The good, the bad and the never-again.
Women only · every member checked by a person
Dating safety app for women.
The whisper network at full volume. you're either in the loop or the last to know
Join 12,708 women on Tea'd
How Tea'd works
Girls looking out for girls
Red flag or green flag?
Other verified women vote on every post, so patterns stand out before you've ordered your drink.
Search his photo
Got a photo from his profile? With a Tea'd subscription, reverse image search finds posts with a matching face, so you can see if other women have already posted about him.
Talk it through
Comment on any post, or send a private chat request to compare notes one-on-one once she accepts.
Bring your girls
Share your invite code with the women you trust. Every verified woman who joins makes the whole circle safer.
Safety first
Every member is a verified woman.
No anonymous sign-ups. Before anyone gets into the app, a real person on our team checks that she's a woman and over 18.
Your photos don't stick around. Your selfie (and ID, if we ask for it) are used only for this check, and we delete them as soon as you've been reviewed.
Sign up with your phone or Google
We text a code to confirm your number, or you continue with your Google account.
Take a selfie
A clear, well-lit selfie. We may also ask for both sides of your national ID.
We check it. You're in.
Our team reviews every application by hand. Once you're approved, the tea is yours.
House rules
Community guidelines
Keep the tea hot, not toxic. Six rules keep the circle safe for everyone in it.
Tell your own story
Share what happened to you, in your own words. Stick to what you saw and lived through. Rumours, second-hand gossip and screenshots of other people's private chats get removed.
ReadNo private details
Never post phone numbers, home addresses, workplaces, ID numbers or anything else that could help someone track a person down. A first name, age and area are enough to warn other women.
ReadCall out behaviour, not looks
Talk about what he did, not how he looks. Body shaming, slurs, harassment and hate get removed, whoever they're aimed at, and repeat offenders lose their account.
ReadKeep it clean
No nudity or sexual content, and never share intimate images of anyone, even to prove a point. Posts that do are removed and the account can be banned.
ReadChild safety
Tea'd is for women aged 18 and over. Anything that sexualises or endangers a child is removed at once, the account is suspended or banned, and we report it to the authorities, as the law requires.
ReadNo ads or spam
Don't sell, promote or recruit here, and don't post on someone else's behalf. Fake accounts, spam and paid posts get removed.
Readwe tell each other everything.
Got tea? Spill it here.
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